Looking through your blogs out there, and very interesting they are, I’m struck by all the
I borrowed this from my brother
I gave this to my Dad
It made me wonder whether the nature or nurture question applies to reading. It certainly would appear so. That if your parents read then you are likely to. We’re given tons of advice from schools as parents that we should model reading behaviour to our children, particularly Dads for boys! (Does that mean more women read than men? I’ll see if I can find out for a later post).
I have aimed hard to read to my children every day (mostly succeeded and have thoroughly enjoyed it, I’ve included a few gems to read to/with your children, particularly boys that you may not have come across) and this has only recently stopped. They’re now 12 and 10. I stopped because they were not becoming independent readers, seemingly preferring to hear me read rather than read themselves. They are evolving now into more independent readers (a phase for graphic novels/comics at the moment). My wife is a keen reader and we do have everyone reading in the house on occasions. But I would say on balance that all this has not had the desired result.
When I think back to my own childhood I remember my parents reading the paper and flicking through magazines. But never reading a book. We weren’t taken to the library, but books were around, it was an unusual extravagance of my parents to buy books for us. I was also encouraged to buy books. But all in all not a literary household and in fact neither of my brothers is a reader. Apart from school I don’t think they’ve read a book at all! My Mum always says she doesn’t like books. So those of you who swap books in the family count yourselves lucky!
I can still remember when it all changed. A school friend read The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe – C.S.Lewis aloud to us and did a good job of it. I remember thinking to myself I want to be able to do that and it all changed from that point on. So a big thank you to Guy Picken, who read wonderfully all those years ago in his Mum and Dad’s back room. If I ever see him I must tell him personally.
I’m keeping my fingers crossed that my sons continue to develop as readers, and that one day we’ll be exchanging books saying You must read this. I’ll try not to be disappointed it I don’t and enjoy whatever it is they do bring and exchange things with them that they will enjoy. (I’ll expect whatever happens I’ll always recommend books to them)
So to answer the question. I’d have to say no. There are no guarantees whatever you do. But I suppose if you didn’t show some enthusiasm for reading then it’s unlikely you children will. I’ve certainly achieved that with football!
Recommended Read with older children…
The Remarkable Adventures of Tom Scatterhorn – Henry Chancellor (The Museum’s Secret, The Hidden World, The Forgotten Echo)
The Collaborator – I couldn’t put it down today, I just had to find out what was going to happen.
- Home Reading (mrstarvit.wordpress.com)
- Books Are a Start, But … – 10 things parents anxious to raise good readers should know (babble.com)